Where things Stand with US

Been quite a while since I took keyboard in hand and addressed this blog. Sadly I am also remiss in addressing my other blogs as well, but life goes on, I am at 83 still upright and breathing and my life is still looking not so bad.

Where are we now

Back in January of this year, my wife achieved a specific milestone in her life. She gained the status and birthday enabling her to join the greatest group, Senior Citizens, yea HER. During a conversation following her birthday, in our Alexandria, VA condo, she commented that she would prefer to retire, when that happened, nearer the water. Plus, she most assuredly did not want to retire in Alexandria, due to the hustle-bustle, high cost of living, traffic woes, etc. Having started a new senior management position with a new company, there was some concern that she could even consider a return to the area where there were many areas of water, rivers, Chesapeake Bay and the Atlantic. In this new firm, she was fortunate in that she was hired with the status of remote/work from home, and as a bonus of having an excellent manager who embodied the very tenent of being the epitome of a strong, vibrant manager style. So it was decided at the end of our multiple discussions that she would approach her manager with the idea of her moving her remote location to the Tidewater area of Hampton, Newport News, or the History Triangle. Her manager agreed with the condition that she would report in person to the office on a reasonably regular basis. So our search for a real retirement location began with the agreement of her company’s management for this remote work location. YEA Us!

A large hurdle presented itself, purchasing a new home while selling our existing one. Remember at this particular time, interest rates were rather high considering where they were when we originally bought this home. It was a Condo Apartment in a very nice building, in a very nice neighborhood, but it was a bit pricey and our monthly condo fees were a tad on the high side for the area. Still we had on our side, the world’s greatest real estate agent! This lady was super, having sold our earlier condo home at a better price than we imagined, then later when we had to relocate back to NOVA, helping us locate and buy the current one and now she would help us sell that same condo apartment while we moved out of Northern Virginia and back to the peninsula area where the water environment was extensive and the cost of living significantly better than the Alexandria/NOVA area.

We located a great community in Williamsburg, VA and purchased a very nice townhouse unit there. But the condo sale was not moving as rapidly as we had hoped. So for the first time in our lives, we owned two housing properties, UGGGGH. We moved into our new house at the end of March, 2024 and our Alexandria Condo finally sold after an additional three months on our books, and even then at a very large reduction from our initial price. Thanks to the high interest rates!!! But it was done, and we were settling into our new retirement home. Ready to avail ourselves of the plethora of history locales in this area. Though I can’t do a lot of walking through these area, I can still get around using a scooter when they are appropriate and available or going to the driving tours of some places. A really great place to live, and to retire in.

What’s the status of my Cancer?

Well so far, I am still holding on. With the move from Northern Virginia and the great oncology team I had there, I had some concern about finding a good cancer specialist in this area. As luck would have it, we found an oncology practice that was connected through a parent company with the oncology group in Northern Virginia. My records, treatments, chemo prescriptions were all immediately available to the new penninsula group and my cancer fight was continued as if I were still with the other practice. Different Oncologist, and nursing staff, but still a practice of highly competent, dedicated professionals.

Just recently one of my chemo medications was changed to a different type. Stronger, and better at the next phase of my cancer program. Cost was considerably higher, but such is the environment of our medical environment and specially the cancer segment. At least the cancer staff for the oncology medications are working to keep me supplied with sufficient samples of the oral meds to get me through the year and my new insurance benefits will roll over making the cost much more acceptable. Oh yeah, the oral medication is a much larger pill and a larger dosage! But with a bit of water, I am able to get it down. Minor reactions, but actually increasing of the severity of the previous medications.

I am not trying to make light of this cancer invasion of my old body. Frankly, it terrifies me since many of my family and close friends have been taken from this life by Cancer. Anxiety, fear and of course depression are my companions quite often. In some months they become almost a daily companion.

But hey! I am still in the fight, I am upright, breathing, mobile, and still alive.

Things have changed though

2024 was a year of change for the Bride and I. She reached the first of the golden age, I was fighting cancer, heart problems, and other old guy stuff. But it was a good year for other things. In January we traded our Buick Envision SUV for another GMC Terrain. Remember, I loved the Buick, but we felt that it was time for a change. So our dark blue suv was changed to a very red suv and with updated electronics including a new approach to our navigation system. The new GMC was a bit larger than the Buick, but it had a smaller, more efficient drivetrain including all wheel drive and a turbo four cylinder engine. A very comfortable vehicle, especially comforting to this old guy when travelling any distance.

Our retirement house was very different from what we were used to. IT was a townhouse, and while we had actually owned a Townhouse style in Leesburg, this one was radically different. First of all it was the largest house we had ever owned standing at over 2200 square feet and three large bedrooms. It is in a senior citizen restricted community that includes a club house, a fine dining restaurant and a pub style cafe in that clubhouse location. There is an 18 hole award winning PGA grade golf course, tennis and pickleball courts, two swimming pools, one outside and one inside. So all in all, a great place for seniors to gather with others of their age ranges. Our house hosts a second floor two bedroom and bath, with a balcony overlooking the first floor. Char’s remote work office has been established in this balcony area. There is sufficient additional space for buffet style tables, a sofa, and other items, including perhaps a third TV. She is sufficiently removed from the rest of the house so her company activity can be conducted without outside interference. And the really great thing about this house is that the price was considerably lower than we paid for any of our Northern Virginia homes, except for the Leesburg house.

Sadly this past month, we had to say goodbye to the last of our four legged kiddos, our little kitty girl Penny left us to join her pals, Jessica, Norman, Dutchess on the other side of that Rainbow bridge. Another grief hole opened in our hearts with her passing and we have decided that there will be no more in our family. At our ages, the pain of loss of these loving little beings is simply more than our aging hearts can stand. So our household will now be bereft of the sounds of those little feet padding around our floors, or their little furry bodies curled at the foot of our beds. But we had their love for several decades, Penny with us for over 17 years before her leaving and Jessica our first furbaby was with us for almost 19 years. Through several moves, Virginia to Texas, back to Virginia, several homes in Northern Virginia, a home in Southern Virginia, and over four years aboard our classic motor yacht, Misty Lady (Dutchess and Penny despised those diesel engines) these wonderful little souls lightened our lives, gave us laughter, love and joy every day of their lives with us. They were not pets, they were family members.

I realize that I have been remiss in my entries to this blog and will try to do better. With the election coming in just a few more days, I will try to make every effort to offer my research results, my humble opinion and of course my old curmudgeon rants in more frequent issues. As our inlaw friend Kate closes her commentaries, ONWARD.

The Right’s Manifesto for Ruling

For several months I had been hearing about something called the Project 2025. But I was unable to gain any clarity or information at all, about what this was, where it was coming from, and who the originators/developers were. Then a few weeks ago, I was attending an online meeting with some of my old military buddies from our Vietnam days and that subject came up in those conversations. When the topic was brought into more focus, it was said that the Project 2025 was a collaborative effort hosted and published by the Heritage Foundation. The information shared at that meetup was that the Project 2025 was essentially a manifesto developed by many folks on the right ideologically, and hosted/authored/directed by the Heritage Foundation. It was described as a set of actions that were to be taken when a Republican Administration gained the White House and there was sufficient support in the Congress for the topics identified in the documentation.

Well, naturally this old curmudgeon was then very highly interested in this Project 2025 and what the members of the Trump Republican Fascist Party had in mind. Understand if you will, the attitude of the Old Virginian, curmudgeon that he is, about further exploring this latest information of the intentions of the ChristoFascist block of our nation. I have made it a horrible, but necessary, task of reading or watching as the case may be, of right wing publications, media venues, and speeches, as much as possible.

Having been a reader of such publications as NewsMax, Townhall, Epoch, the NYPost and other blogs, newsletters, radio broadcasts and as often as I can stand it, episodes of Fox News Entertainment channels. And let me say upfront, that calling up those right wing propaganda venues is tough for this old man. The putrid lies and comments/articles published in them, especially venues like that TownHall rag, are simply generated whole cloth out of the most egregious lies and misrepresentations that has not been seen since the early days of the Third Reich in 1930’s Germany. However, it is must be said emphatically, these publications and media broadcasts are the source of our rabid right winger’s philosophies truly the source of their so called “facts” In just one issue of the Townhall rag this week, there were four minimum assaults on the “liberals” and the “destructors of our America” directed at the Democratic Party and every liberal individual who does not kneel and worship at the altar of their ChristoFascist Fuhrer Donald J Trump.

And it retrospect, it began to dawn on me that I had heard about this Project 2025 in one or more of those putrid purveyors of lies and propaganda.

Eventually, after much searching, Googling, and other search engines, I came across a source for the Project 2025, at the Heritage Foundation website. Turned out this organization brought together some 400 participants to design this ode to theocratic/fascist change to our United States. I eventually found a source for the original soft copy of the entire document entitled as the Project 2025. After reading some of the documentation and of the Heritage Foundation commentary surrounding this document, I then discovered a list of those individuals and groups that were active participants in the construct of this far right manifesto. Among those multi-hundreds of authors/collaborators, were far right propagandists and anti-democracy groups such as Hillsboro Collage (or perhaps it calls itself a Uni now), Patrick Henry University, and a plethora of some of the most egregious rabid agitator-bullshit promoter groups and propagandists fomenting a fracturing of our country and its people. These were the creators along with the head creator, the Heritage Foundation. And frankly, what I read over these online files, scared the crap out of this old man.

A lot of the rumblings I had encountered in my perusals of online media alluded to actions similar to what I found at the site and within the first couple of chapters of the document itself.

I do have a soft copy of this Project 2025, not sure what reaction the right wingers, the RNC or the publisher/author Heritage Foundation might be though, if I were to offer this soft copy via another issue of the Old Virginian’s blog or perhaps on one of my web sites that address various topics of interest.

One will simply have to wait and see if there are any responses, requests for copies, or supportive commentary from any readers (if there are any readers ;-)) who would be interested in obtaining one of these copies.

So, for now, I will go back to my research readings (a sickening chore, but it must be done), to ensure that I follow the advice of men and women much smarter than I, “research your enemies, to know what dangers may lie ahead”. That is why I continue to delve into areas such as Townhall, Epoch, NewsMax, Newsweek, etc. Simply to keep informed of those areas where people are being brainwashed with rabid right wing ChristoFascist propaganda.

As a good friend of our prints at the close of her published commentary: “ONWARD”

Changing Our Lifestyle

On March 27, Char and I made another change in our living arrangements. This all started back in January of this year (2024) when we began to think more seriously about the aspect of retirement for the both of us. See, I had been retired since 2012 but Char had to continue being gainfully employed until she actually reached retirement age. She isn’t there quite yet, but that day is just over the horizon and we determined that we needed to make some real moves toward establishing our retirement environment and so we began to plan for the eventual day that she would give notice to her firm of the intent to retire.

It was painfully obvious to both of us that there would come a time when my being much older and not in the greatest of health, I would no longer be in the picture and she would have to go on alone. We decided that Alexandria was not where we needed to retire, firstly because of this cost of living in that metro area and the need for a more enjoyable locale. Alexandria is part of the Washington, DC Metro Area and as a result is rather crowded and rather isolated for human interaction. For example, we had been in our condo for over a year and had not met or communicated with any of the other residents. Oh we knew the concierge folks on the front desk and the two maintenance technicians. But none of the owners/residents were actually known to us, other than a nod on the elevator.

And so, with our decision made about retirement preparations, we began to search localities that we felt would be a location where we would be near the water, and in an area where the residents overall were more in line with our age and focus. We also wanted to be in an area where we would take day trips to interesting venues, focused on historical or quaint perspectives. This set of ideas causes us to return our attention to the Hampton Roads/Tidewater area of Southeast Virginia. We had no desire to relocate into any of the locations below Virginia and the western areas of Virginia were not of interest either. So we began our focused search for a new, retirement home.

This focus area was primarily on the Hampton/Newport News/Yorktown/Williamsburg area. We initially began our preliminary research in our former neighborhood of Kiln Creek, Newport News. But then a new discussion brought another requirement for our retirement home. We decided to look at 55+ communities, primarily in the Williamsburg area. A request to our Navy Federal Credit Union bought us a local real estate agent who was a participating agent in the NFCU real estate program. Our northern Virginia real estate agent (with whom we had done several housing deals) then vetted the agents from the NFCU program recommendation. Turned out this agent was terrific and within a short time we had decided on the Colonial Heritage community. We visited the community, looked over the facilities available to the residents of this development and toured two of the main home offerings.

On March 27, 2024 we closed on this new 55+ community home, and made arrangements for our moving company to deliver our household goods. We were home again!! Only problem is that we still owned the Alexandria Condominium and therefore now had two mortgage obligations!!

Our hope, and that of our super real estate agent (whom we consider part of our family), was that we would be able to find a buyer for the condo within a relatively short time. Oops, that didn’t happen. Seems the folks who actually were interested in the condo and were not turned off by the asking price, were then turned off by the very high condo fee! Seems that they were not excited about having a mortgage in today’s market coupled with a condo fee of just under a thousand dollars.

So, we paid two mortgage payments until July when a buyer actually placed an offer in our hands. Thank the Lord, we finally had a real buyer and our August outlay would only be for ONE mortgage. Yea US.

Now we are preparing to implement a set of final purchases/installations for our new home in Williamsburg, Virginia, a very historic area and part of the History Triangle, including Williamsburg, Jamestown and Yorktown. We are also right next to Hampton Virginia, the oldest continuous English speaking settlement in the North American continent and where my ancestors first came to this continent back in the mid-1600’s. So, lots to see and do,especially for us old history buffs and for the most part, these areas were very accommodating for folks like me who have mobility problems (mobile carts for rent). We are hoping that the family will come down to visit, now that we have a house large enough to accommodate visitors.

Sometime in the mid to late August we will restart our DayTrip activity, with several small historical areas to visit and write about. This activity is where we locate and then travel to the interesting and historic areas to visit, film and write about. So, keep a eye out. We will post in this blog as well as linking into and posting for Facebook. Not sure about the others, we are not familiar with how they operate yet.

So, a new evolving lifestyle change for the Bride and I. New house, new town, and new neighbors. What’s not to like?

Uneducated, Arrogant, just Rude

Have you ever been subjected to an individual who invades your space, cuts you off in traffic or intersection, refuses to allow you to merge at a construction site? Okay what about the person who pushed ahead at the coffee bar order station, or the concession stand at the theater or simply caused you to stop walking because of their actions of cutting you off?

Not sure really why we have become such a rude, insensitive bunch of boobs, over the past few years. I suspect it is somewhat related to the changes that society has moved into acceptable behavior. I am thankfully into my octogenarian age range now and I can clearly remember when our nation was full of people who were considerate and respectful of others. Police officers, military personnel, older citizens all were respected and politely interacted with. Neighbors were for the significant most part, respectful of your property rights, didn’t try to inject themselves in your personal or family business. BUT were there for you when you needed help, or information/advice at your instigation! 

Sadly that is rather rare. I was fortunate a while back when my wife and I purchased a standalone house in a well developed neighborhood. We had four neighbors who introduced themselves to us straight away. Share information with us about the neighborhood, the HOA folks, and where the local service facilities such as supermarkets, decent restaurants, and medical facilities. They clued us in on the golf course that wound it’s way through our development and was connected to a resort, including small hotel, restaurant, clubhouse, driving range, and putting greens. In short, they were open friendly and not intrusive at all. One of the neighbors introduced us to a great handyman who essentially was knowledgeable about our type of house, and the household items that most often required repair, a really super man of all trades just about.

We sold that house when my wife was offered a super position at a great increase in pay and benefits. I am retired of course so our focus is on her career, until her retirement time comes around. So, we sold that house and moved back into the northern part of our state. While much of her work effort could and would be remote/from home, the requirement was also there for physical office time which made a 400 mile round trip from our then house to her office and back simply not even a consideration. So that house went on the market and we purchased a condo home in the northern section of our state. We have now been in this condo unit for almost a full year (anniversary coming up in about 3 weeks), and we have met or conversed with one single person in this high rise condo building. Big difference>? you betcha.

While violent crimes, petty theft, and other criminal activity is found in the area we left as well as the area we relocated to, we felt quite a bit safer in the place we left, than we do in the current abode. Sad huh? Having spent a long career that required several job and location changes, I have lived in rural type areas as well as major city type locales. In my early times, following my military career, I also traveled for the companies where I was employed. Over my career, I accumulated over one million miles on commercial conveyances as well as my own vehicles, but mostly commercial travel (air and rail). In the latter years of my career, the travel by air became more of a trial each successive year. The seating got smaller, more cramped, the refreshments/meals became either totally non existent, or carried a substantial price for a crappy serving. The cost of this travel became quite exorbitant and worth less and less. Finally the day came when I had determined that it was time to hang up the laptop bag and briefcase, swap my dress shoes for sneakers, and my suits for track clothes or denims. So, on July 5, 2012 I joined the ranks of the retired old guys.

As I was the president of our condominium board, I had sufficient tasks to keep busy and engaged. Of course being the head of a condo board is not a walk in the park. Rarely do members of the association contact the board, especially the president, with compliments. It is quite often a compliant of some sort. However, after four years on the board, my wife and I decided to purchase a large motor yacht and become liveaboard mariners. We found an aged one, at 54 feet in length, purchased it outright with funds from the sale of our former condo apartment. At the outset, we discovered adage about BOAT, which refers to Bring Out Another Thousand and we did, many of those thousands. You see, our starboard (that is the Right side of the boat) diesel engine seized up, about two hours after we took possession. We had a very expensive and time consuming replacement of that engine with another one, acquired at a very high cost. So having the boat “on the hard” for almost six months and spending that time in a single room in a local hotel, we finally got the engine replaced, other items repaired or replaced, returned the Misty Lady to the water, and made the two day voyage to our final destination, the Washington, DC waterfront and the Capital Yacht Club where we secured a permanent slip to secure our floating home.

We found the folks who were our liveaboard neighbors to be friendly, helpful, and a wellspring of advice and knowledge about motor yachts and all the warts that come with owning and living aboard. We were overjoyed to be with a group of people who were kind and attentive to their fellow water residents. The attitude of our fellow mariners at the Capital Yacht Club was almost a 180 degree difference in the attitudes we experienced when we left the marina for shopping in a grocery store, or the local shops in the immediate area. Rude, sometimes quite concerning of potential violent reaction, we were inclined to drive across the river to the Arlington Virginia area looking for a more civilized environment. Alas, the area there was not much better. Still rudeness abounded, unfriendly attitudes toward others, and no concern about jumping the line for automobiles and human personage. EGAD, what happened to my great USA of the 50s, 60s, and 70s?

Well now we are ensconced in another high rise condo and have been here for just over a year. Withing over 260 apartment units, we have spoken to none of the residents, but have to the management staff who man the front desk of our condo tower. They are pretty friendly. A couple of days ago, an older Asian gentleman resides on our floor of the building, actually spoke to me on the elevator as we were descending to the garage area and our cars. I was dumbfounded at first, but frankly enjoyed the brief interaction with one of my fellow residents. However, think on this, in over 1 year of residency, this was the first and only conversation with a fellow resident. Maybe it was the cane I use for walking balance in my aged body.

Well, we are in the process to make a change for a more friendly area, but that is a topic for a follow on blog note. Keep checking on us?

Amtrak, Why we need it

 There is a lot of discussion today regarding the fate of the Amtrak train system in the United States.  Many are for it and many are against it.  Frankly, I am unabashedly for it.  I think that Amtrak should become a national railroad in every sense of the words.

Unfortunately the Congressional Republicans are pushing to cut the federal subsidy that was established when the private rail companies decided to eliminate their passenger rail system and the United States Government created a corporation to acquire and operate the passenger rail system. The federal government, focus on our ineffective Congress, should get fully behind Amtrak, provide full funding to not only keep the trains running, but to improve their rolling stock, and to expand their services to the smaller towns and hamlets in our country that have no reasonable access to public transportation. A major function the federal government should perform is to establish an Amtrak rail network. Currently the passenger trains of Amtrak are significantly dependent on the private rail freight company trackage which impacts the effectiveness and efficiency of our passenger rail system, and this should certainly not be the case.

Some or most of these private (stockholder owned) companies were once in the passenger rail business, but in when they encountered competition with the expanding popularity of air travel, these companies decided there was not enough of a profit center so they began the process of eliminating their specific passenger services. The federal government was very much aware that passenger rail was important to the nation and our people, so the National Railroad Passenger Corporation (later to be known as AMTRAK corporation), was formed, acquiring the rolling stock of the various passenger lines that were being eliminated by the private rail companies.

A brief Amtrak History

Every civilized country in the world (and some not so civilized), with the exception of the United States has a true national rail system.  Passengers in the European countries can move rapidly and comfortably on their trains between Frankfort, Germany and Rome, Italy and points in between.  Many of the rail systems in other nations offer high speed rail systems such as the Mistrale in France. The trains are clean, offer quality services and in the majority of cases are on time.  People pay for these services and the fares off-set the government expenditures this keeps the passenger ticket prices reasonable.  However, and this is important, they do not expect the train organizations to survive on rail fares alone.  Each national system is fully supported by the central government. Whereas the United States
Amtrak system is basically a federally chartered business partially funded from the Treasury Department as directed by the Congress. The entire system is impacted by the vagaries of Congressional malfeasance and biased roadblocks. Yet the folks at Amtrak have made great strides in maintaining and improving the passenger centric services at this large transportation facility. And they have attempted to keep prices within a reasonable ceiling. While prices are actually higher than they should be, a lack of consistent support from the federal government and the right side, do nothing bunch of Congress has caused problems with this system from the start. Yet the folks at Amtrak have made great strides in maintaining and improving the passenger centric services at this large transportation facility. And they have attempted to keep prices within a reasonable ceiling. While prices are actually higher than they should be, a lack of consistent support from the federal government and the right side do nothing bunch of Congress has caused problems with this system from the start and most of those have been financial causing the passenger rail tickets to be higher than necessary.

During a previous Republican administration and the people who make up that administration’s “brain trust” established by the president and vice president determined that the best thing for Amtrak is to pass a large portion of the operations off to the various states. This was presented as a way provide relief for the federal government and lead to better and expanded service.  Bullpucky, no such thing will happen.  One former member of the Republican Party in Congress attempted to push off the idea of selling the Northeast Corridor section of AMTRAK to a private company, simply because that particular subsystem was very profitable.

As for the stupid idea of saddling the states with another financial obligation, just simply another idiotic scheme of the GOP outliers to cut the federal government no matter what damages that action would cost. Our state and local government organizations are already stressed from initiatives passed by the federal government in past administrations and mandated that the states pick up the tab.  It make one wonder who the heck these people are, where they got the idea that the people of the United States want passenger rail services to be relegated to a couple of “commuter service” routes up and down the East and West Coasts.  There are a whole lot of people who don’t live on either of these coasts and they have to travel by private auto many miles to get to a public transportation facility (airport) for their travels.  Even then, because the majority do not live near a major airline hub, they are required to pay an exorbitant air fare to travel in a very uncomfortable conveyance.  And in increasing instances, with very uncaring service providers.

How train travel used to be

When, as a young man in the Air Force in the late 50s and 60s, riding a train was the only reliable method for me to travel from my military assignments to visit parents and family since as a newly enlisted airman, I had no automobile, nor the income to afford to buy one. Traveling by the interstate bus system back then was a good alternative, but was not a comfortable means for long distance travel. so, the rail system of the time (then totally commercially owned and operated) was the way I was able to visit my family. Those trains were well appointed, had full service dining cars, comfortable and good services in the lounge cars and sleeping accommodations were within financial reach of a young Air Force enlisted person. Travel by train was pretty much available for the majority of our states, counties and towns. Even small villages had train stations where one could buy a ticket and the ticket master would notify the rail company who would cause their train scheduled through the town to stop for passenger pick up, even for one or two people! Trains were very available and most places were either blessed with a station or were very close to a location for a station.

But then the airlines noticed a large market in people who were riding the trains and they began to lower their fares to compete with the passenger trains, and people opted to travel by air because it was a faster mode. Passengers on the rails began to drop off, and frankly back then the airlines actually provided a great experience, with decent meals provided at no additional cost, the seats were comfortable with plenty of leg room. Of course that was soon to change. Once the airlines saw their passenger volumes begin to grow, they found several “crises” to justify increasing the price of a ticket, add special fees, the meals were no longer included in your ticket price, and the seating got smaller and closer.

Today of course there really is no competition. The airlines do whatever they wish, impose the most obnoxious fees for the stupidest reasons, their seats are uncomfortable, the bottoms rather hard (thinner cushioning), the leg room is negligible and if the passenger in front of you decides to recline his/her seat back, your tray table slams into your stomach. This simply is not found on the Amtrak passenger cars, seating is very comfortable, there is plenty of leg room and even a foot rest is there. If the passenger in front of you decides to recline, there is no interruption of your seating space. Your laptop on the tray table will still have plenty of room.

Simply stated, Amtrak is a wonderful way to travel in our country and the Congress should do the job that citizens elected them to do, FUND the Amtrak at the necessary level to maintain a viable, comfortable and desirable method of intercity and national travel.

I personally have traveled from the east coast (Washington, DC) to the west coast (Seattle, Washington) aboard the Amtrak rail system and it was a most enjoyable vacation trip including the wine and cheese tasting sessions during our travels.

Frankly, I will only travel by Amtrak and private automobile. Will NEVER take a trip on an airline again. If Amtrak doesn’t go there, I don’t need to go there either.

Facing the Big C

Yesterday, I had an appointment with an Oncologist! This was be the initial appointment since a set of tests over the past few weeks have determined that the cancer cells in my prostate have spread to the other areas of my body. My urology professional team and I had hoped mightily that the small level of cancer showing in the prostate would remain just another item to watch out for in my aging 82 year old body. Turns out we were wrong. Now it is going to be up to both my urology folks and my new Cancer specialists.

As some may know, back in December of 2022, when my wife and I were living in the Newport News/Hampton area of Virginia, I had a malignant tumor removed from my bladder. The urology/oncology physician determined that the entire tumor had been removed. He also discussed with me, during a subsequent follow-up to that surgery, the aspect of “shaving” or trimming the prostate gland in my abdomen. It had been diagnosed as being enlarged a couple of years prior to this and I had been taking medicine to reduce its size making my urethra more open. My wife and I had already made plans to relocate back up to Alexandria, VA because she had received a terrific offer with a company back up here, and had put our Newport News home on the market. Thankfully the first day of being on the RE market, we received several offers. We selected one and accepted the offer. I informed my Newport News area urology/oncology doctor of this and we agreed that as soon as we were settled into a home in Alexandria I would contact a urologist and have the prostate procedure performed.

Once we had completed the closing process on our new high rise condo apartment, I contacted my previous Primary Care Physician at the Virginia Hospital Physicians Group. He had been my PCP for more than 10 years before our relocation to Newport News and he was the first contact I made after we got our personal effects in our new Alexandria home. My PCP referred me to a VHC urologist and my first visit was scheduled. We determined that the prostate “shave” surgery should be performed very soon. The prostate surgery was performed by the Virginia Hospital Physicians Group Urology specialist on April 19, 2023. Lab analysis of the shaving samples from my prostate discovered the presence of cancer in the prostate. While it was a small amount, we felt that it was simply a case of monitoring to ensure that it would not spread in the prostate or elsewhere. Several months later, in October, a decision was made to test for the Cancer’s status using a PET scan test. Results of that PET scan caused the medical folks to schedule a biopsy of my lymph nodes to confirm the results found in that earlier scan. Turned out, the Cancer has spread from my prostate into other areas of my body and was found in those lymph nodes. I was informed of this status and an appointment with the Virginia Cancer Specialists organization was made for yesterday, November 30th.

I met with the Oncologist who would be in charge of my Cancer treatment plans. There were some tests performed and blood draws were taken. Turns out that the Blood Draw will be a regular event throughout the treatment process to monitor the red and white blood cells and other indicators, oh joy! Hate those blood draws.

Medications, both oral and injection were identified by the Oncologist and two other appointments were made with my new Oncology Team of professionals in this organization. One for palliative care and another for genetic evaluation; can my children be faced with the same type of cancer? Orders were placed for the specialized cancer medication, and another member of my new “team” will be responsible for interface with my insurance and my Medicare people. As they put it, the plan is to keep my focus on fighting this cancer and they will take care of the other things.

So, it seems this old man has hit another roadblock and now faces the aspect of the dreaded word CANCER. My father and one of my brothers died from Cancer so I just figured that this is perhaps a bit of Hodges male curse. I don’t plan on just rolling over and waiting for the Cancer to kill me through. With this great group of Cancer specialists, and my regular team of medical professionals in the Virginia Hospital Physicians Group, I hold great hope and confidence that we will put up a good strong fight and hopefully win this battle.

More on this as things progress. Just want to keep my cyber friends (primarily males because this is a male type of cancer), aware of prostate cancer’s danger and hope that they take lessons from this to keep awareness and evaluative testing to ensure that they catch any semblance of this disease in the early stage. Don’t ignore the danger, Prostate Cancer can be a horrible invasion, and in many cases a harsh end of life. I feel confident in my team of medical experts and specialists and do believe that this old curmudgeon will be around for quite a bit longer.

So, the Electorate finally woke up!

Last night’s election in various locales brought some interesting and well deserved results. Especially in my beloved state of Virginia. But appears that the “PEOPLE” struck back at the efforts of the politicians, propagandists, dark money PACs and billionaires and of course the fascist-leaning Christian Nationalist like the new House Speaker. Calm and clear heads in many of the competitive elections cast their ballots to retain our democracy and individual rights.

Especially here in Virginia where ALL of the Legislature’s seats were up for grabs. I was particularly concerned that evening as I readied for bed, but the belief in our Democratic Republic’s concerned voters came through with flying colors. I awoke to find that the Republicans had lost the House majority and the Democrats were now in charge of both the houses of our Virginia legislature. We were able now to stop the Youngkin Administration and the Republican legislators from further damaging our school system with made up crises for implementing book banning, true history of our Commonwealth and the USA, and implement a religious tone to the promotion of collegiate information/topics. Plus the right of women to make their own decisions along with their physicians regarding the health and well being of their bodies and in keeping the government and religious fanatics out of their faces. Problems were rampant in those items and the invasion of the rabid right wing Moms for Liberty terror groups were defeated in school board elections across our state.

SO, we survived another assault by having true interested citizens who stood up to the tyranny of the Republican Fascism/Christian Nationalism and showed the entire nation that Virginians still stood for individual rights and the historical definition of freedom in the Old Dominion Virginia.

Makes me proud once again of my home town and home state.

Corporate Health Care-Why we need UHC

In the history of our country several attempts to provide a better, more inclusive health care system has been approached or presented for consideration and political action. Each time the corporation interests have blunted and blocked the process through the Congressional representatives who are dependent on these corporate interests for political contributions. Universal Health Care is the standard in the rest of the developed world. With the Exception of the United States, full, comprehensive and excellent outcomes have become accepted as the norm in all of the other developed nations. Except us!

The United States is said to be the wealthiest nation in the world and that is probably true. However, it is not a situation that is all encompassing of our citizenry. Those at the upper reaches of our society are wealthy beyond imagining while those at the lower reaches struggle daily to feed, house and clothe their families. While I am unsure of the status at this point, a couple of years ago it was stated that over 30% of the people in this country were either uninsured or underinsured. They struggled mightily to keep their families healthy and it is a failing struggle for many. Many of the so called “working poor” were in jobs that provided no benefit what so ever, save a pitiful wage which in most cases failed to provide the necessities of life requiring both parents to work setting up the need for daily child care at exorbitant costs. One company was noted for pushing its employees to apply for state or federal programs rather than providing a benefit package themselves. This company at that time was recognized as the largest retail corporation in the country and its owners were worth billions of dollars each. They inherited this wealth by the way, from the efforts of their paternal ancestor.

A large segment of the regular working public had a bare minimal level of health insurance, which in the majority of instances was not much better than none at all. People had to forego treatment, medication and proper diets due to the vagaries of their work/life environment. I recall vividly the case reported in our local newspaper, of a young boy who died without proper care of an abscessed tooth which cause the infection to spread into his brain and causing his death. His mother was employed in a minimal wage job with no benefits and they could not afford proper dental care nor health care. Had this family lived in Canada, Great Britain, France, Germany, etc. that young boy would have received proper care in a timely and appropriate manner. He would still be alive today!

In truth, thousands of Americans die each year due to a lack of access to health care and all because of our broken health care system.

In 2003, a Congressman from Michigan put forth in the 110th Congress a Bill labeled HR-676 that called for the establishment of a universal health care plan that would be a single payer system and replacing the current commercial, private, profit centered health insurance industry. Under this bill, every resident of the United States would receive a single health card that would be presented to their health provider for treatment or consultation. This card would also be used to acquire necessary medical equipment, respiratory equipment, prescription medications, dental and hearing treatment and implements. There would be no requirement or demand for payment at the point of service. There would be no limitation on work or other status so workers were not going to be locked to an employer because of their health insurance plans and not worry about losing health insurance if they changed jobs. This program, under the HR-676 bill would allow for access to any recognized health care professional, health care facility, or prescriptive/pharmaceutical source.

The Corporate Health Care Insurers and others in the profit taking areas of our health care environment would be restricted from offering services that were included in this program. Only those medical treatments or procedures that were cosmetic or individualistic in nature and specifically not covered under the HR-676 program could be offered by the corporations selling insurance. Of course this stirred up the hornets nest of the profit making corporations who were bringing in billions each year in profits through unreasonable denials and the most egregious was over billings. It has been posited that under the current programs put forth by the for profit health insurance providers, Medicare has seen overbilling in the amount of more than 140 billion dollars each year. These are taxpayer dollars that are going into the pockets and bank accounts of the insurance executives and the major shareholder’s bank accounts. Billions of dollars that could have been used to provide better health outcomes for the residents, men, women, and children of our United States.

This old man is assembling some supporting documentation from respected sources and over the coming editions of this blog series will submit this data for the evaluation of American Residents and families of our broken and corrupt health care industry. We are also exploring the construction of a web site dedicated to this UHC need.

Stay Tuned?

Know Your Worth

One of the most intelligent and competent people I have ever had the privilege of knowing was a woman who didn’t present herself as anything but a good worker and team player during our initial interview conversation. Her resume included some outstanding previous engagements, but she didn’t act like the brilliant aerospace engineer that she truly was as evidenced by her past work experiences.

After a few weeks on our project team she began to display capabilities and insight indicating that she had more knowledge and intelligence regarding the work we were doing than any of the others on our small design team. Over a period of almost a year, I was increasingly impressed by her statements in response to questions during our project technical meetings. However, it was only when she was directly referenced or queried, did she speak up and display her intelligence about our project and demonstrate her professional capability.

During the early weeks with this woman on this project, my major focus was on trying to determine why she was not more forthcoming. We had several conferences regarding her work and her personal attitudes. I wanted to move her into a position of more responsibility, as a project lead or project manager, but was hesitant to put her into a position where she might be more pressured. It finally came to light that she had experienced a considerable amount of covert and overt discrimination and denigrating comments (mansplaining and others) during her college years and in her early work place assignments. So we focused on improving her confidence and interaction familiarity with the other members of our group. That began to show significant promise as she began to see how the other engineering folks accepted and encouraged her in both her work activity as well as inviting her into their off work pastimes.

Once she was more comfortable within our crew, and many counseling sessions between the two of us, she began to show more, do more and impress the entire team with her outstanding capabilities. Gradually she shed her protective walls and became more interactive and outgoing. Her forced introvert personality was overcome and replaced by the truly excellent personality that she had kept hidden.

When our project hit snags, she was the first person to start the processes to determine potential solutions and to worked with the team to implement those solutions. She was always ready to share and support the other team members when situations arose. And the other engineers responded positively.

She was finally displaying a more confident demeanor, was recognized by the executives in our company with excellence awards, and financial awards for her suggestions of effective/efficient process modifications. It became obvious to me that she had moved on forward from her reticence earlier and was a strong candidate for upward promotion. We moved her into a team lead position and by the time our multi year program was completed, she had moved into a Project Manager and then a Program Manager position, my old position since I had been promoted to Division level just before my retirement.

Now in my retirement years, I recall the people who I had the honor of working with and managing. I will often take to my computer and access those special forums for our professional environment to follow along with some of my former team mates. It gives me great pleasure to see examples that this woman has continued to grow in her own way to enhance and expand her ability and her self confidence. Considering that she was now in an executive position and a presenter of technological interests for large audiences she had definitely come a long way from when she first interviewed for an aerospace engineering position with our company. And it was obvious that she had learned to:

Know Her Worth





A life well lived?

How does one truly judge the answer to that question. One way is to ask yourself are you content in your life so far? Have you contributed in a positive way to our society? Is your family happy with you?

Well, I think everyone would think that there might be some instance in their life that they would like to have done differently. I know I had times in my younger days when I may not have been as compassionate with some of my acquaintances as I should have. Surely most of us have had a time in their past life where they did or did not do something that now they would love to change that instance? Frankly the determination of a well lived life is both personal and external. From your own image of yourself and that of those close to you and over your life. Are you respected, loved, and admired? Surely most of us would aspire to those attributes in our life. We all should strive to have the respect of our peers and family, and hope that at the end of our time on this old planet, we will be missed.

Overall, throughout my long life, I believe and do hope, that I have been a reasonably decent member of our human society. I served my country in our military (US Air Force) and wore that uniform proudly. I have been a reasonably successful worker/employee, senior manager, business person, husband and father.

I am father to three wonderful persons who as kids were responsible, were active in their schools, academically as well as sports activities. They did not indulge in activities that would cause a trip to the police station for their dad or mom. All in all, my three children were very good kids growing up and became solid compassionate and responsible adults with strong situation awareness.

My daughter was my first born child, she is a strong and competent person who attended college and university while holding down a full time position. She attained her Associates, Bachelors and Masters degrees all while fully employed. She now is a senior manager for a major corporation, owns her home and makes her old father so very proud of the strong woman she has become.

My middle child, my eldest son, died at the age of 44 from Meningococcal Disease (Bacterial Meningitis). He was a person who made friends quickly, was a good judge of character and person, made friends of many and those friends were lifelong. At his celebration of life, following his passing, over 250 of his friends and his family attended. He was an amazing athlete, attending university on a football scholarship, he excelled in golf and loved that game with a passion. So when he died, we held an annual golf classic for several years in his memory, with the funds being collected to the benefit a national association for Meningitis awareness. He was truly loved by many people and we mourn his loss every day, even now.

My youngest son is the father of four daughters, my angelic grand daughters. Two daughters are from his first marriage and the two younger daughters from his second, current marriage. They are all thoughtful, compassionate and caring women, strong in their bearing, and respectful of their parents, grand parents and other people in their circle of life. This son was injured in a work related accident over 25 years ago and his injury was such that he was determined to be fully disabled, but he is a strong personality, takes his disability and constant pain as a fact of life and soldiers on. He is strong in his faith and active in his church community. He loves his four daughters with a true father’s pride and awe, they are his shinning lights and his reason for being, in his mind. He loves and adores his wonderful wife and they evidence a wonderful caring relationship.

My wife is also a strong woman and of whom I love and am extremely proud. She is not only my wife, but my life partner and best friend. She has grown in her person from a relatively shy, retiring sort of person, to a nationally recognized expert in her profession. She conducts seminars and subject matter presentations to large audiences in various locations around the nation, she conducts regular educational instructive classes to assist others in their efforts to attain their professional certification. She has many papers and essays published in the trade journals of her professional field. And she is a constant helpmate for me as I age and grow less mobile.

So, now it comes down to me personally, and yes I am pretty satisfied with how my life has progressed. Of course there were some hiccups and bumps in the road. Some wrong decisions about my career path, an oversight in ignoring a financial investment opportunity that in looking back would have caused me to become a very wealthy person, but alas such is life. Still in all, a good life with some significant successes to look back on, When I contemplate where I came from in life, my beautiful family, how I lived and worked, and where I am today, I can feel that yes, it has certainly been a live well lived.

So, what about you? A life well lived at this point?